Wednesday, 21 March 2012

~~Alhamdulillah~~

Saya seorang isteri sekarang~~ Semoga Baitul Muslim kami ini sentiasa dalam redha Ilahi....



Mode sibuk!! later i'll update more with the cute pictures of us~~ muahahahhaa...keperasanan sendiri....

Friday, 24 February 2012

2 weeks and counting~~

setelah beberapa ari idup dalam gua :: internet kat opis problem, internet kat umah suspended, radio kereta tak idup, henpon tak canggih :: jadi, arini baru ade talian hayat.. hahaha, terima kasih CEO sebab datang..kalau tak datang mesti line tenet ni prob sampai wedding saye!!





well, from to date saat before ijab kabul, saya ade 13 hari lagi aje...semalam tacap2 barang hantaran, nak gubah2 bunge tu, tapi huduh je outcome die.. hadehhhhhh, sangatlah tangan tidak berseni... :(





saya nak diet, tapi tibe2 bos bawak masuk pizza!! hhaahaha, makan la apelagi, sebab other colleugue vege arini, jadi sekotak pizza besar itu untuk saye... kamu nak??? mari2, makan sama saya...




hurm...tgk ceklist cam banyak lagi lom setel.. huwarghh...jap nk tgk makcik tailor tanye baju sanding siap dah ke tak...hopefully jadik cam apa yang saya design la.. takmo menerima nasib yang same seperti baju nikah.. :(




alamak!!! dah pukul 1.30?? time for prayer.. later updet again... tata~~~

Thursday, 9 February 2012

Counting Days Is Scary

Menghitung hari, detik demi detik.....






Nombor untuk hari ini adalah 28~~ pagi tadi kete kene sondol dari belakang~ tak pakai seat belt, seb tak terhantuk kat stereng! jadi, from now on, silelah pakai seat belt even tak suke!






Kene marah dengan abah sebab tak buat police report, percaya sangat dengan mamat pelanggar kereta itu!! :( encik other half juge marah kerana ketidaktegasan saya deal dengan mamat pelanggar kereta~~ hurmmm, am shaking, serabut takleh pikir apa laaa.... duh!!!






so, can i lodge police report tomorrow?? valid for 24 hours aight?? encik polis out there, anybody willing to help???





rosak plan saya nak g shopping barang2 yang belom setel! :( it is another 4 weeks only~~ saya takmo kire hari but ramai orang2 baik hati tolong kirekan!! so, otomatik saya terkire sekali laaa~~





Ya ALLAH, semoga hari2 mendatang akan dipermudahkan segala urusanku... Engkaulah Yang Maha Pengasih Lagi Maha Penyayang... sama2 tolong doakan saya ye??





~~out~~

Sunday, 22 January 2012

‎~*♥*~ 10 Tips on How to Be a Successful Wife ~*♥*~



**am sharing this~~worth to read!!**



1) Be grateful to your husband. Remind yourself that it’s a tough world out there and your husband works very hard to provide for you. So whatever you do, don’t compare him to other men, unless it is favorably. Let him know that you appreciate his efforts, not just through your words, but also your actions.




2) Be sensitive to his moods, feelings and needs. For example, don’t start complaining or burden him with problems as soon as he comes home; rather, welcome him and make him feel good to be home.




3) Be cheerful and humorous, smile often, don’t feel shy to be affectionate with your husband and make him feel really happy to be around you. Express your love frequently and creatively, rather than waiting for him to do so first.




4) Make sure you serve him the foods he likes, remembering that variety is the spice of life. Try to eat together as this fosters companionship.




5) Dress up for your husband at home. Wear the colours and clothes that he likes to see you in and use make-up, perfume, jewelry - in short, whatever it takes to be attractive to him.
Do things together or at least allocate some time of the day to give him your undivided attention. Be sincere in appreciating him, show interest in his day, his activities, his thoughts and opinions. Give him advice and comfort him when needed.




6) Spend your husband’s money carefully and try to keep him informed of where his money is being spent. Remember not to spend large amounts of his money without his permission.
Show caring and concern for his relatives as this is a sure way of securing a place in his heart. Never object when he spends on them, as this is a source of abundance in provision and increase in life span.




7) Don’t fly into a rage when you have a difference of opinion or he criticizes you. Stay calm, control your tongue and don’t challenge your husband’s authority at that time. Use your wisdom, tactics and powers of persuasion later to try to explain your point of view.




8) Believe the best, not the worst about him. Be forgiving and accept apologies graciously rather than holding grudges and bringing up mistakes of the past.




9) Show respect for your husband by not divulging your private and confidential issues to others, or by complaining about him to people or discussing your marital problems with those who cannot help you.




10) Last, but not least, remember that your husband is the head of the family and as long as obedience to him does not entail any sin, it is your duty to obey him. Allah’s Messenger Sal Allahu Alayhi Wa Sallam said:




“Any woman who dies and her husband is pleased with her, will enter Paradise.’’




~~hope that i would be one of them~~